Greek Life as an International Student: Finding My Place
Growing up in Thailand, I had never really heard of Greek Life. I did watch Joelle Park's (Class of 2019) YouTube video about her rush experience at Dartmouth before arriving on campus, but I didn't seriously think about joining. It wasn't until my sophomore year that I decided to give it a shot—and I'm so glad I did.
I appreciate that Dartmouth has a two-month pause on Greek Life for first-year students. It gives you time to settle in without depending on Greek spaces. Additionally, you can't join Greek Life until your sophomore year. So instead, students find their community in other places—through First-Year Trips, dorm life, or clubs. I spent my first year bonding with friends from my dorm and cultural organizations, which made it easy to find a tight-knit group outside of Greek spaces. It felt like the perfect balance, allowing me to consider rushing later, without feeling like I had to.
When sophomore fall came around, I was a little unsure about rushing, especially as an international student. However, I had the chance to chat with an international student from the Class of 2024 who was already affiliated, and her experience put me at ease. Soon after, I decided to go for it—along with most of my friends. Even if you don't know someone in Greek Life, sororities make the process super approachable with coffee chats where you can ask questions about the houses and their culture.
The rush process was surprisingly smooth and exciting. Throughout the three rounds, I got to explore each house and meet the members. I can't lie, for two weeks, I couldn't stop thinking or talking about it. It was a mix of nerves and excitement, wondering where I would end up, but in the end, everything worked out perfectly! My friends and I each found a house that we liked. Even though we ended up in different ones, we still hang out all the time—and now we get to go to each other's events and meet even more people.
Joining my sorority has been such a rewarding experience. From the moment I joined, I felt welcomed and supported. A few weeks after initiation, I found out who my "big" was—an older member who became my mentor—and my sophomore year took off from there. It's been filled with fun events like spa nights, apple picking, and "sis dins" (Sunday sister dinners where we cook and catch up). I've started seeing more familiar faces around campus, and I've felt truly supported both academically and personally. Additionally, my house fully meets the demonstrated financial needs of all its members, which has made my experience much more stress-free and affordable.
Now that I'm a junior, I'm getting to see things from the other side as a member of the Rush Committee. It's been a full-circle moment, helping decorate the house and plan the rounds. I love being part of this community—it's such a special feeling to sit in the Grand Hall (our living room), do my homework, and chat with my sisters about life and classes, or ask for advice from older members (especially when they're TAs!). I'm so excited to see who will join us this year.
Greek Life at Dartmouth, in my experience, has been inclusive and welcoming. My background and culture have never been a barrier to joining. Even for those who don't rush or remain unaffiliated, there are so many events open to campus. It's been an amazing part of my Dartmouth experience.