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Photo of me and my mom at the Gile Trail Sign

It's not every day that a study break includes a surprise visit from your mom (I know we look like sisters). Yet, I am blessed to say that this past weekend, that's what mine entailed. As someone who lives on the other side of the country, it meant the world to see the woman who inspires me to do what I do here at Dartmouth. 

This summer, I will be studying abroad in Italy through the Full Immersion Rome Experience (FIRE) within the Italian Department. Hence, I planned not to see home until winter break in November, which made this visit even more special. My mother got here around noon on Saturday, so we got to spend almost two whole days together before she had to fly back to the opposite coast. I introduced her to some of my friends, and then we got lunch at Molly's Restaurant. Molly's is my go-to spot in town as they offer a wide variety of dishes that never fail to hit the spot. I think it's safe to say that any Dartmouth student will tell you that nothing can compare to their bread and honey butter. 

Photo of my mom at Molly's.

After that, I had a pre-rush event, which worked out perfectly as my mom needed some time to rest after the long trip from Arizona. Coming from a bit more southern state, I was curious how Greek life and rushing would function here at Dartmouth. Pre-rush offers first-year women the opportunity to bond and connect with potential sisters during their first spring term. Dartmouth has a delayed rushing process, as first-year students are not allowed to enter any Greek space for their first six weeks at Dartmouth. They cannot formally rush or join a Greek space until the fall of their sophomore year. Pre-rush allows students to learn about the wide variety of Greek spaces available at Dartmouth long before students begin the formal process of rush. I found the environment to be extremely welcoming and, honestly, a lot of fun as the living room was filled with students painting and talking as Taylor Swift played in the background. A common misconception that I had about sororities is that they were exclusive to students who looked a certain way or came from specific backgrounds. However, I can say with confidence that this does not hold true at Dartmouth, as I have seen upper-level students with similar backgrounds to mine—whether they are from Latin or Native American backgrounds—feel included in their respective houses. 

After that, my mom and I went on a "woccom" (a walk around Occom Pond), which is one of my favorite things to do on campus. We took one lap around Occom, a large pond located by the golf course. Thanks to the rain, it has been extra green this time of year, which is a nice change from the usual cactuses back home. 

Once our woccom was done, we went to the Native American House, as the Mexican Student Association was hosting a carne asada. Funny to think that my mom flew such a far way just to find ourselves cooking similar cultural dishes and listening to the same songs we would dance to back in our own living room. It was really fun to share that experience with my mom, as she was the one who taught me how to cook. 

Photo of the Carne Asada of the Mexican Student Association.

The next day, my mom and I went to the Connecticut River! We walked down to the river and asked to borrow a canoe. Thanks to those within the Ledyard Canoe Club on campus, it is accessible to paddle on the river. 

Photo of my mom in the Connecticut River.

We weren't the best at canoeing and ended up having to ask for help from the staff working the dock. That just goes to show how kind and welcoming the Dartmouth community is. Looking back, we definitely made a fun memory. 

Once we got off the water, we went back into town to watch the new Lilo & Stitch movie at The Nugget. It was super cute to experience an old-school movie theater, as I had never been. 

The next day, it was already Memorial Day, meaning that my mom had the coach back home scheduled for later in the day. But I knew I couldn't let her go without going on at least one "sunrike." What is a sunrike? Great question. It is a hike that occurs during sunrise. A close friend of mine, Victoria '26, helped us catch a ride there. Victoria is an amazing engineer, hiker, and friend who was one of the leaders of the Dartmouth Outing Club's sub-club, People of Color Outdoor (POCO). My mom loves hiking, so it was a blessing to be able to take her on one before she left. 

Photo of my mom, Victoria, and me on the top of Gile.

Gile was the perfect choice as it is no longer than a mile and a half round trip and offers some amazing views. 

Returning to campus after our hike was bittersweet as my mom helped me pack up some of my dorm room, as most Dartmouth students will be heading out soon (except for those who are taking classes over the summer quarter). 

Photo of my mom and me in front of Rauner Hall.

My mom was there to help me set up my first set of hangers in my dorm and was now helping me pack up my first box. Overall, I could not have asked for a better three-day weekend as my mom was one of the main people who supported me on my journey to Dartmouth, so seeing her smile and feeling her warm hug reminded me of all those late homework nights, flag football games, and gym sessions that led me to this campus in the Woods. 

Te amo, Ma!

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