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Reflecting on my first year, I'm incredibly grateful that I didn't force myself to fit into the conventional social mold. By embracing my true self and seeking out spaces and people that resonated with my values and interests, I found meaningful connections and friendships that enriched my Dartmouth experience. Navigating social life may have been challenging for an international student and an introvert, but it was certainly not impossible. In this blog, I would like to share how I found my group of friends at Dartmouth.

Orientation: A Foundation for Friendships

Orientation week was a blur of introductions, icebreakers, and bonding events. International Student Orientation (ISPOP) was especially helpful, connecting me with other international students who were also navigating the challenges of living in a new country. First-Year Trips, where I lived in a cabin with other '27s and the twilight ceremony were great opportunities to meet people and make new friends.

Photo with friends during first-year trips
Making friends through hiking on First-Year Trips!

Academic Involvement

In the quarter system, academics can dominate your schedule, naturally making classes a major way to connect with others. For me, challenging courses, in particular, fostered strong connections. My French 3 class in the fall was intense, with morning drills at 7:40 AM three times a week and an impressive amount of grammar tests. Working through it together with classmates—figuring out verb conjugations while we were waking up during morning drill or forming study groups in the library before exams—created tight bonds and has led to some of my closest friendships. And then there was CS10 during spring term—this was one of the most challenging classes I've taken here. Being the only two people studying in Baker Lobby (part of our Baker-Berry library) for numerous Friday nights as I worked on problem sets with my friends, forming study groups for midterms and finals, and celebrating at the local ice cream store after exams led to some of my closest friendships. Working through this class has made us friends for life.

post-midterm celebration for CS10 with friends
Post-midterm celebration for CS10 with friends

Interests and Identity: Finding My Community

Outside of academics, my interests and identity played a crucial role in building my social circle. Joining the Dartmouth Outing Club (DOC) led to friendships through shared hiking trips and outdoor adventures. Attending lectures by the Political Economy Project and panel talks with our Montgomery Fellows helped me meet friends with similar intellectual interests. The tight-knit Chinese student group on campus became another essential support network, where we celebrated major Chinese festivals and spent time together regularly. Speaking French also opened doors to new friendships through French Living Learning Community (LLC) activities; being a People, Places, Pines admissions blogger introduced me to fellow bloggers of different class years who shared a passion for writing and storytelling (I'm close friends with a lot of bloggers, and I'm so grateful for meeting them through this blogging team!).

cooking with other Chinese students at Dartmouth during Chinese New Year
Cooking with other Chinese students at Dartmouth during Chinese New Year

The Dartmouth Advantage: A Tight-Knit Community

One of the unique aspects of Dartmouth is its small size and the sense of being a "family in the woods." This intimate environment makes it easier to meet people and form lasting friendships. Whether it's bumping into classmates on the Green or sharing meals in the dining hall, the close-knit community fosters connections that might be harder to come by at larger institutions.

grabbing meals with friends at the dining hall

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