An orange and blue sunset
« All Posts by this Blogger
a vertical photo of a peaceful, winding road with towering trees on either side. The setting sun creates golden light on the right side of the photo.

I feel like it was only yesterday that I was driving up from New York City to Dartmouth for the first time. And though it feels like only moments ago that I was fighting back tears as I hugged my mom goodbye, I've lived a full two terms at Dartmouth.  

I wrote about change and new possibilities in this blog post, and I'm excited to revisit this topic at the end of my second term at Dartmouth. Make sure to check out part 2 of this post!

In this blog post, not only do I want to talk about change and new possibilities, but I also want to talk about setbacks, growth, and new memories! Without further ado, here's a list that covers all of those topics!

1. Choosing Classes

I have learned how to pick classes. Our terms are fast-paced, so there isn't a lot of time to shop around for classes. This is still a skill in progress, as most worthwhile skills are, and I learn more each term. My first term I didn't love one of my classes . This led me to switch out of this class into a new one at the end of week 2 of the term, which was the very last day in the add-drop period. This ended up being stressful, as I had already missed so much material covered in the class, but my professor was great at helping me jump right in! My second term, I asked my upperclassmen friends for advice on which classes to take, and that led to me being much happier with my classes. 

2. Navigating Friendships at College

One of my favorite things about college is how many amazing, kind, intelligent, and funny people you will meet!! I have made so many friends at Dartmouth. I went to a relatively small highschool, so it has been a new and exciting experience to meet so many new people. I'm constantly making new friends whether it's through a new club, a friend of a friend, or through class. Friendships are not like friendships in high school; friend groups will shift around and you will have different groups of friends that you will hang out with at different times and in different situations. It might seem a little overwhelming at times, but make sure to surround yourself with healthy and happy friendships and you will thrive :) I truly have loved connecting with people and creating new relationships and friendships.  

3. Confidence

I wax and wane in my inner and outward confidence—and that's ok. Remember that you are not alone in your struggle! Everyone has felt like how you feel, even the people who seem like they have it all figured out. I like to remind myself that comparison is the thief of joy. Sometimes I feel like one of the smartest students in the room, and other times I feel like one of the least smart people in the room. But, at the end of the day, I've learned that confidence comes from believing in yourself. 

The view of bright yellow and green trees out of a window. You can see Dartmouth buildings in the background.
A beautiful picture out of the window of the library inspired me to write the following message: Setbacks are only windows to new opportunities. Embrace challenges, as they will help you grow and succeed in life

I hope that in giving you this advice, whether you end up at Dartmouth or another college, you will go "Woah, where did the time go?" after four years and be satisfied with the life you lived!

Posts You Might Like