"Work Hard, Play Hard" at Dartmouth: Academic and Social Life Balance
On my tours, I tell visiting families I "always feel safe on campus, even when I'm walking home late at night." But where would I be walking from? On Thursday nights, I might spend long hours in the library to prepare for my two consecutive classes the next day. At the end of that Friday, though, I hardly even look at my phone as I dance the night away with my friends.
Truth be told, time management is one of the most important skills you'll use in college. Exponential personal, social, and intellectual growth occurs during our college years. Maybe even more so than any other period in our lives. Alongside classes, everyone has unique priorities and commitments shaping their college experience. The saying '"work hard, play hard" is famous for a reason. I especially love how Dartmouth students promote work-life balance.
The process of exploring yourself at Dartmouth isn't an individual one. We have an abundance of support in all corners of our lives. Professors help us find our way through classes and departments, regardless of our prior experience with the subject. Upperclassmen and peers socially guide us. During orientation week, first-year students are countlessly advised to try new things. I appreciated the encouragement to get out of my comfort zone. I broadened my academic interests and met friends from different backgrounds.
After you finally decide what "work" and "play" mean for you, you must also find a good balance between these two. It's somewhat hard, because neither side feels fulfilling without the other. They coexist in interesting ways. I used to find myself sitting with my friends in conversational library spaces to find a middle ground between socializing and studying. But over time, I realized that this prevents me from being fully immersed in either activity. So, I decided to be more intentional about how I spent my time.
I need to feel good about my current academic performance in order to truly enjoy my time with friends. This doesn't mean I "earn" my social time, but I would say I earn peace of mind. Now, I only decline hanging out with my friends if I think that my academic stress would prevent me from having a good time. I want to let loose and fully enjoy myself with them. This also gives me a goal to work towards when I study.
Dartmouth students truly work and play hard. Unlike other academically rigorous schools, we know how to have a good time! Still, I admire how studious and dedicated my friends are. They inspire me to reach my full potential. They also never turn down a good time. Sure, everyone wants grades that they're proud of. But after these four years, it would be nice to have some fun memories to look back on, too.