I Took a Gap Year After High School
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I'm a year older than most students in my class. That's right, I was a 19-year-old first-year. Despite my friends jokingly calling me old, I remain a stalwart advocate of the gap year.
A gap year goes by many names—leave term, sabbatical, bridge year, to name a few—and it's becoming an increasingly common and accepted occurrence for high school graduates before they enter college for another four years of the grind.
Young adulthood is meant to be a period of self-discovery. It's a time to figure out who you are and what you want in life—no, what you really want. If you're anything like me, you might also reach the end of high school feeling jaded and in need of a longer break than summer can provide. So, after I received my acceptance to Dartmouth in the spring of 2024, I decided to give myself that break. I deferred my enrollment for one year, and both my family and the admissions office were supportive.
Taking a gap year was one of the best life choices I've made. Between working shifts at a children's swim school, I had plenty of time for academic and self-growth. I taught myself about personal finance, created a Roth IRA, and started investing. I read books voraciously—totalling about 80 in 15 months—and rediscovered my love for science fiction. I journaled frequently and made plans and set goals for my first year in college. I visited friends and family in the northern U.S., Austria, and China, going sightseeing and making incredible memories.


Looking back, the way I'd describe my gap year is "a gift of time." As admissions to top colleges become increasingly competitive, it can be easy to lose sight of yourself and measure your worth primarily through academic and extracurricular achievements. Starting college is such an exciting and significant life milestone, but I realized that without time for meaningful self-reflection, I risked carrying negative habits and pressures into the next chapter of my life.
During my gap year, I learned to invest my energy in the things that truly matter over the long arc of a lifetime: my personal relationships, my sense of self, my independence, and my ability to think critically about the world around me. I rediscovered the spark of curiosity and childlike joy that I'd been missing. And when I entered Dartmouth in the fall of 2025, I carried with me a powerful desire to take full advantage of the opportunities provided to me. So far, that intrinsic motivation has remained strong, and I intend to keep it that way!
In short, I'd like to dispel some possible misconceptions about taking a gap year:
- "I'll be behind my peers." Not so! One year is but a small portion of the grand scheme of your life, and many of my classmates and peers actually told me they wished they'd taken gap years before jumping straight into college. If anything, you'll be coming into college more prepared after a reset and ready to tackle rigorous academics.
- "I'll be bored and won't have anything to do." Again, not true. You can work, volunteer, travel, take classes at a local community college, pursue hobbies and passion projects, learn a new skill or a new language, etc. Dartmouth is very supportive of students taking gap years and even has a whole page on its website with relevant information.
- "All my friends will be in college, and I'll be lonely without them." This doesn't have to be the case! You can still visit friends who are attending college close by, and meet new people through various engagements that can fulfill some of that need for social connection.
Of course, taking a gap year isn't what's best for everyone. But it's an option that's at least worth considering.
As a bonus, here's a non-exhaustive list of books I enjoyed reading during my gap year, in no particular order:
- How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie
- What If We Get It Right? by Ayana Elizabeth Johnson
- A Short History of Nearly Everything by Bill Bryson
- Contact by Carl Sagan
- The Three Body Problem by Cixin Liu
- Bewilderment by Richard Powers
- Birding to Change the World by Trish O'Kane
- Other Minds by Peter Godfrey-Smith
- An Immense World by Ed Yong
Happy exploring!
Peace,
Ariana